nickie asked:
Should i forgive him?
I recently broke up with my bf of over 2 yrs. We lived together and got along perfectly, but he seemed to have issues regarding money. He makes waaaaay much more money than I do (since he is 20yrs older than me, hint, hint) I just got my first related career job and I am trying to climb up like everyone else. I can barely afford to pay my own bills, but I do pay 95% of them; he helps me pay for my dry cleaning and gives me his EZ pass to use since I moved in with him and it’s far from my job we live in NY and i work in NJ (1hr each way) I drive back and forth every day. He is lucky to work from home. We had a fight recently because I asked him to come to a bday party with me, to which he complaiend and threw things in my face about me not paying for anything when we go out. I was hurt by that and we started arguing…he finally said to me I think is better that you go to mother’s house tonight..I was in a shock and said to him that I will not leave whenever he pleased me to… that it was my decision, and he said :”Oh no, it’s my decision because it’s my apartment and I pay for the rent.”
I am so hurt, he has humiliated me and hurt me really bad. He has thrown things in my face before, but had never asked me to leave!!
next morning I woke up and got all my stuff out of there, left him a letter telling him how much he hurt me and to never contact me again… he hasn’t called since..and I am hurting more as days go by. My holidays are ruined and I am falling into a bad depression…please help.
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Should i forgive him?
I recently broke up with my bf of over 2 yrs. We lived together and got along perfectly, but he seemed to have issues regarding money. He makes waaaaay much more money than I do (since he is 20yrs older than me, hint, hint) I just got my first related career job and I am trying to climb up like everyone else. I can barely afford to pay my own bills, but I do pay 95% of them; he helps me pay for my dry cleaning and gives me his EZ pass to use since I moved in with him and it’s far from my job we live in NY and i work in NJ (1hr each way) I drive back and forth every day. He is lucky to work from home. We had a fight recently because I asked him to come to a bday party with me, to which he complaiend and threw things in my face about me not paying for anything when we go out. I was hurt by that and we started arguing…he finally said to me I think is better that you go to mother’s house tonight..I was in a shock and said to him that I will not leave whenever he pleased me to… that it was my decision, and he said :”Oh no, it’s my decision because it’s my apartment and I pay for the rent.”
I am so hurt, he has humiliated me and hurt me really bad. He has thrown things in my face before, but had never asked me to leave!!
next morning I woke up and got all my stuff out of there, left him a letter telling him how much he hurt me and to never contact me again… he hasn’t called since..and I am hurting more as days go by. My holidays are ruined and I am falling into a bad depression…please help.
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