trinityodematrix asked:
My ex husband moved out of state many years ago(after refusing to allow me to move out of state for financial reasons). At the time, I had an attorney. I clearly recall my attorney stating that there is a law(or a case law) that states if one party moves out of state, they are resposible for transportation to and from New Jersey unless the other party agrees to meet them outside the state. Unfortunately, my ex has been in and out of the children’s lives over the years and when we went to court last, we got a new judge who is not familiar with all the details and I did not have an attorney. When I objected to driving 2 1/2 hours one way for pickup and drop-off(my ex claimed it was 1/2 way though it takes 3 hours to get to his home as since then I have driven it) on the grounds that I had not left the state, the judge asked for the case or law that falls under. As I did not know, he went ahead with my ex’s plan with my objection noted.
My ex husband moved out of state many years ago(after refusing to allow me to move out of state for financial reasons). At the time, I had an attorney. I clearly recall my attorney stating that there is a law(or a case law) that states if one party moves out of state, they are resposible for transportation to and from New Jersey unless the other party agrees to meet them outside the state. Unfortunately, my ex has been in and out of the children’s lives over the years and when we went to court last, we got a new judge who is not familiar with all the details and I did not have an attorney. When I objected to driving 2 1/2 hours one way for pickup and drop-off(my ex claimed it was 1/2 way though it takes 3 hours to get to his home as since then I have driven it) on the grounds that I had not left the state, the judge asked for the case or law that falls under. As I did not know, he went ahead with my ex’s plan with my objection noted.
At this point, the place has changed to somewhere closer(now I only drive an hour and 1/2) but he is consistently at least half hour late but more times it’s more like an hour or more. He does not leave early enough to be on time and complains that he doesn’t want to. I would like to know if anyone knows the New Jersey case law or law in which this exists as I have had enough. I work too many hours and have a very bad back. Spending 8-10 hours every other weekend on the road is causing me a great deal of pain and taking time away from the things I need to run my household smoothly.
At least if I know the case/law, I can go forward. Thank you.
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